Though it is strange, but still when I look around, I wonder why people look at a married woman differently?
She might look better dressed, maybe wearing an ornament or two, that mark her married. She might be flashing off her new attire or may be living up to her dreams of putting on a heavy makeup that she could not do before marriage... But still she's a girl at heart! The very basic sindoor and bindi does not make her a woman!
She might be learning how to take care of her home, she might be struggling to take care of not just herself but two and more people, and she might not always like to hear 'what does your husband do'...
The pious institution of marriage doesn't suddenly turn a girl into a woman. For that matter, having kids doesn't necessarily do the same either. The society needs to be considerate towards the fact that the girl has her own life and her own self defined progress chart. The society needs to celebrate who she really is; celebrate the child in her, she may be anyone around you. She could be your friend, your sister, your mother, or even a total stranger.
She's not supposed to be responsible for innumerous things, countless chores, it's just her desire for perfection that she does what she does.
This is for every wonderful woman you and I know. Let the girl grow up at her own pace; let her take her own sweet time and let the little girl in every woman live forever.
The chivalrous gender should cherish her, spoil her and most importantly let her be what she is. She wasn't born to take care of you, it's her heart that makes her do so....!! Respect her willingness to be for you but don't ever suppress her with undue pressure.
For each effort extended to let her live life her own way, you would be graced with innumerous moments of selfless love, care and affection.
This blog is dedicated to all the wonderful women I know who have lived their life according to their own way and it is also to salute all the wonderful men in their lives who have supported them through the thick and thin to accomplish their goals.
Hats off to all the affectionate fathers, caring brothers, loving husbands and wonderful sons!! The society needs such thoughtful contributors.
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